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The Landscape of Mothers is a framework for understanding where we are in our journey to take care of ourselves and others

There was a time I realized that I had experienced about every kind of “being a mother” that one could be in this single lifetime.  I had parented my own parents during their divorce, I placed a baby for adoption at 18, then I experienced infertility, went through in vitro fertilization (IVF) treatments, and I had a surprise baby after IVF.  I experienced debilitating postpartum depression after my last child, and found myself deeply questioning what it is to be a mother.

What makes a good mother?
Am I a good one?
​Is there such a thing as a good mother?


​​A few years ago I told my story of motherhood after adoption alongside nine other women.  Each woman whittled a pivotal piece of her life story into seven powerful minutes. We shared, cried, delved deep, and found the core of our stories together. In the crafting of that story I found my inner Council Of Mothers.  I realized that they were how I survived my journey through motherhood and I eventually reclaimed my self amongst the hall of mirrors of my depression.
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Mother Archetypes

​Over the subsequent years, in my continued personal journey and working with other women through this process of reclaiming our Selves amidst motherhood, I’ve realized that it’s not just The Council of Mothers, but that there are other Mother Archetypes that are part of our inner landscape.

In fact, there are many mother archetypes, possibly infinite numbers.  The Landscape of Mothers is made up of eight Mother Archetypes, here is a small introduction to one, The Mountain Mother:

The Mountain Mother

The Mountain Mother is solid.  You will always find her where you expect her.  She will always be available to hold you and all of the things you are afraid you cannot hold.  The Mountain Mother is dependable. She’s good at listening without judgement, being still in the face of drama and worry, and she’s generally the quiet type.

Her gifts are that she grounds and connects with people around her without really having to think about it.  Her mere presence puts people at ease, gets them in touch with their feelings of rootedness and solidity. Her soft and subtle murmur is “you are right here, right now”... and we feel ourselves settle into our feet, inhabit our bodies a little more, our minds calm.  She is gentle, quiet, unassuming.


Because she has a penchant for slowness and stillness, the Mountain Mother runs the risk of staying too long in one place.  She might be highly inclined to stay in a lonely marriage too long, delay her own needs and gratifications for so long that she forgets that she even has her own desires.  She is the one most likely to give up her energy to feed others, even as they’re grown and ready to become independent.


​Mother Notes:
History, Archetypes, and Musings

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...about how investigating the archetypes of mother can help you in your own parenting journey, navigate your relationship with your mother, or understand how and why you take care of yourself (or don't!).  The archetypes of mother can give us insights into our daily lives whether it's relative to our children, our parents, or how we mother ourselves.  

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