The Landscape of Mothers is a framework for understanding where we are in our journey to take care of ourselves and others
There was a time I realized that I had experienced about every kind of “being a mother” that one could be in this single lifetime. I had parented my own parents during their divorce, I placed a baby for adoption at 18, then I experienced infertility, went through in vitro fertilization (IVF) treatments, and I had a surprise baby after IVF. I experienced debilitating postpartum depression after my last child, and found myself deeply questioning what it is to be a mother.
What makes a good mother?
Am I a good one?
Is there such a thing as a good mother?
A few years ago I told my story of motherhood after adoption alongside nine other women. Each woman whittled a pivotal piece of her life story into seven powerful minutes. We shared, cried, delved deep, and found the core of our stories together. In the crafting of that story I found my inner Council Of Mothers. I realized that they were how I survived my journey through motherhood and I eventually reclaimed my self amongst the hall of mirrors of my depression.
What makes a good mother?
Am I a good one?
Is there such a thing as a good mother?
A few years ago I told my story of motherhood after adoption alongside nine other women. Each woman whittled a pivotal piece of her life story into seven powerful minutes. We shared, cried, delved deep, and found the core of our stories together. In the crafting of that story I found my inner Council Of Mothers. I realized that they were how I survived my journey through motherhood and I eventually reclaimed my self amongst the hall of mirrors of my depression.